Hey guys, first of all I’m going to say a few things about myself.

I’m a 16 year old guy from N. Ireland. I’m an introvert (don’t really like to socialize etc.), and I consider myself a loser.

Last weekend I went to visit a friend of mine in Netherlands that I met while playing a multiplayer game a long time ago. I had a great time there. While he was showing me around the town one day, we bumped into his friend (a girl). We (me and her) only said "hi" to each other, and then my friend and her started talking in Dutch that they haven’t seen each other in a long time etc. Later that day we came back home and my friend showed me her facebook, so I added her. I started talking to her on FB, asking if she wants to hang out, but she couldn’t because she had to study. The next day I added her on MSN, and tried talking to her, but I literally had no idea what to say.

Now, since I came back home few days ago, I can’t stop thinking about her. I can’t concentrate on school, games, TV, work, nothing. I mean, I barely know her, but I just can’t control it. I’m trying to get her out of my head, but I can’t. I wanted to start talking to her over the internet, get to know her better etc. so the next time I’m going to visit my friend (maybe even this year), I’ll try taking her out on a date or something, but I never know how to start a convo. I don’t know how to talk to girls. I had many girlfriends before, but I was a totally different guy too.

What should I do? I’ve been considering a few things:
- Just telling her how I feel, but then she might think I’m a weirdo and never talk to me again;
- Delete her off everything and try to forget about her, but I don’t think I could do that;
- Try talking to her, but I have no idea how to even start a conversation.

Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks in advance.

I know how you feel bro. Except I’m a girl & I feel that way about this one guy. It’s so hard to concentrate on everything. My heart literally skips a beat when I’m thinking about him. But I think you should really get to know her more and see where that takes you. If you like her, then tell her you like her. Take her out on a date. Ask her out. She might later on feel the same way. And if you get to know her, and find out she’s a wh0re or a biitch, then don’t talk to her. Just leave it alone. You never know until you get to know the person! (:

2 Responses to “I’ve met a girl and now I can’t get her out of my head…?”

  • Tiffany says:

    I know how you feel bro. Except I’m a girl & I feel that way about this one guy. It’s so hard to concentrate on everything. My heart literally skips a beat when I’m thinking about him. But I think you should really get to know her more and see where that takes you. If you like her, then tell her you like her. Take her out on a date. Ask her out. She might later on feel the same way. And if you get to know her, and find out she’s a wh0re or a biitch, then don’t talk to her. Just leave it alone. You never know until you get to know the person! (:
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  • Barry says:

    Honestly. Try to increase your confidence levels. See a psychologist or a hypnotist. Then you will know exactly what to do.
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